Let us face it, all of us at some time or the other have wanted to walk out of the marriage either for a short period of time or on a permanent basis. While this is perfectly normal and happens in most marriages, there are a lot of points to consider for divorce and it may not always be good to stop your divorce for the sake of your own mental comfort and that of your spouse.If there are 10 good reasons for continuing your marriage, there could be 20 better reasons why you should quit. While the entire decision is personal and each of us have different reasons to stay in or quit the marriage, let us examine some of the common scenarios where stopping the divorce decision may not be a good idea. Many people in an attempt to save the marriage and stop the divorce, end up fighting ghosts. Kids, insecurity, financial dependence are some of the common excuses to 'stay married', when there is not an iota of love or understanding that exists in the relationship. There is hardly any point in staying married just because you want to save money for alimony, court fees, etc. Divorce may be a better option rather than staying unhappy for the rest of your life. If you want to save your marriage just because it is too ego-consuming to grant divorce to your errant spouse, think again. Perhaps you stand to lose more in the deal.Be that as it may, divorce should always be the last option when everything else fails to save the marriage. It takes two hands to clap and chance are that you too have your own issues that have ruined the marriage. Before pointing fingers, it is imperative that you clean your own stable first.If the right communication at the right time helped you get married to the person you loved most, perhaps you could still rely on effective communication to bring back the good old days and stop your divorce.
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Stop Your Divorce - Or Should You?
